Shaping our lives

 

Our perceptions shape our reality, and our actions shape our perceptions.

This sentence highlights the profound impact our thoughts and actions have on our experiences of the world around us. It suggests that we are not merely passive observers of our lives but active participants in creating our own realities. By cultivating positive and expansive perceptions, we can open ourselves up to new possibilities and experiences, while our actions, rooted in these perceptions, can further shape the world we live in. This sentence invites us to take ownership of our lives, to consciously choose our thoughts and actions, and to recognize the power we hold to shape our own destinies.

Feelings

 

Feelings are the language of the soul, revealing the depths of our being.

This sentence emphasizes the profound connection between our emotions and our inner selves. It suggests that feelings are not merely fleeting sensations but messengers from our deepest core, revealing the intricate workings of our souls. By attuning ourselves to our feelings, we can gain a deeper understanding of ourselves, our motivations, and our place in the world. This sentence invites us to embrace our emotions, not as obstacles to overcome, but as guides to navigate the complexities of life.

Time

 

Ode to a Prison Officer

In the heart of shadows, where secrets reside,

A prison officer stands, with stories to hide.

Behind his stoic façade, a soul yearns to impart,

The confessions of a life lived behind bars.

He's witnessed the depths of human despair,

The broken spirits, the burdens they bear.

He's seen the flicker of hope, amidst the gloom,

The resilience of the human spirit, defying the tomb.

He's heard the whispers of regret, the cries of remorse,

The tales of lives gone astray, veering off course.

He's seen the tears of repentance, the longing for grace,

The yearning for redemption, in this desolate space.

But he's also witnessed the darkness within,

The depths of cruelty, where empathy grows thin.

He's seen the savagery of the human heart,

The scars inflicted, tearing lives apart.

He's carried the weight of their stories, their burdens, their pain,

A silent observer, witnessing life's refrain.

He's guarded their secrets, their sins, their mistakes,

A keeper of confessions, for whom no judgment he makes.

Yet, amidst the darkness, a glimmer of light,

A spark of humanity, burning ever so bright.

He's seen the power of compassion, a touch that can mend,

A beacon of hope in this prison's somber end.

He's learned the value of forgiveness, the grace to bestow,

The chance for redemption, for a soul to grow.

He's seen the transformative power of love's embrace,

A lifeline to redemption, in this desolate space.

So he stands, the prison officer, a witness to life,

With stories untold, both darkness and light.

His confessions, a testament to the human maze,

Where hope and despair intertwine in life's intricate haze.

Lost school mate

 

This is about one school mate who was the king of the class, sadly no longer with, I have changed his name:

There once was a boy named Ronald,

Whose laughter was cheerful and bold.

With a twinkle in his eye,

And a smile that could fly,

He brought joy to all who were told.

Ronald loved to play in the sun,

His laughter echoing like a drum.

He'd chase butterflies through the air,

With a carefree spirit that was rare.

His imagination was a boundless realm,

Where dreams and reality did helm.

One day, Ronald was playing in the park,

When he stumbled upon a hidden spark.

A magical portal, shimmering and bright,

Leading to a world of pure delight.

Without hesitation, Ronald stepped through,

Into a world of wonders, old and new.

He met talking animals, fairies so fair,

And castles that reached high in the air.

He rode on dragons, soared through the sky,

With a sense of wonder that would never die.

In this magical realm, Ronald learned and grew,

His spirit expanding, his heart ever true.

He discovered the power of love and kindness,

And the joy of friendship that never binds.

But as time passed, Ronald began to yearn,

For the world he once knew, the place where he'd return.

He bid farewell to his newfound friends,

With promises to cherish until the very end.

Stepping back through the magical portal,

Ronald found himself back in the park, as mortal.

But the memories of his magical quest,

Would forever remain in his heart, forever blessed.

Ronald grew up, wise and kind,

His laughter still echoing in the wind.

He shared his stories with all he knew,

Inspiring others to believe in the true.

And so, the legend of Ronald grew,

The boy who found magic, and his spirit still anew.

Autumn

 

In shades of green, the trees stand tall and proud,

Their branches reaching high, a verdant crown,

While clouds of white drift gently through the sky,

Casting their shadows on the earth below.

The sunbeams dance upon the verdant leaves,

Their golden rays a symphony of light,

As gentle breezes whisper through the trees,

Carrying melodies that fill the air with delight.

Along the paths, where sunlight paints the way,

I walk with joyful heart, my spirit free,

And as I stroll, I hear the Beatles' play,

Their music lifting my soul with ecstasy.

Oh, what a wonderful world, I softly sing,

A world of beauty, where joy takes wing.

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OLD KEYS DO NOT OPEN NEW DOORS

 

When you want different things, you have to start moving different. Old keys do not open new doors.

This quote speaks to the power of change and the importance of taking action to achieve our goals. If we want to experience something new or different in our lives, we can't just sit back and wait for it to happen. We need to take steps to change our habits, our patterns of behavior, and our way of thinking.

The "old keys" in this quote represent the things that have been holding us back from achieving our goals. They could be negative thoughts, limiting beliefs, or outdated habits. Whatever they are, we need to identify them and let them go if we want to open ourselves up to new possibilities.

The "new doors" in this quote represent the opportunities that await us when we are willing to change. They could be new relationships, new job opportunities, or new experiences that we never thought possible. Whatever they are, they are waiting for us to reach out and grab them.

So, if you want different things in your life, start moving different. Let go of the old keys that are holding you back and reach for the new doors that are waiting to be opened. The only thing standing between you and your dreams is your willingness to take action.

The gifts they left behind

 

In the realm of forgotten things, Where memories gently fade, Lie the gifts they left behind, A treasure unafraid.

In the depths of hearts they touched, In the smiles they brought to life, In the echoes of their laughter, In the beauty they instilled.

A gift of love, a gentle touch, A kindness that would never cease, A friendship that would never fade, A bond that would bring them peace.

In the world they left behind, Their gifts would forever stay, A testament to lives well-lived, A legacy that would never sway.

For in the hearts of those they touched, Their memory would forever bloom, A reminder of the gifts they left, A treasure in the darkest room.

Not up to it

Another day at the grind, peaceful one.  Went for walk earlier was a lovely day.

I am trying to get myself sorted, have not been 100 per cent for a while now, since retiring after working for 40 years takes some getting used too, your whole system needs to adjust.  Looking for a hobby, perhaps earn a little whilst doing it, but where do you start.

I had thought of selling digital downloads, bet thats easy I said to myself, perhaps it is but have not sold very many so gave it up.  So the daily grind is sitting most of the day thinking and watching far too much TV.

Any ideas would be much appreciated. 

 

The daily grind having a rant

Well its been a while since I posted, time flies when your having fun or so they say. 

Various things have happened, got my car back from the repairers, been given time to create a new Will, got in touch over social media with my daughter Amy who has had problems, and become the proud owner of a cheque for £1.82, well there you go.

The huge cheque was from an account I had many years ago, it was a Investment ISA which I had cancelled but had left about 20p in it and it grew into £1.82, its close for good now.

Has been snowing here in Medway today and as usual in this great country of ours everything grinds to a halt, was only about 20mm but a snowflake would have been enough, its all melted now so panic over until the next time.

Just watched the DNA journey of John Bishop and Hugh Bonneville, great to see that hugh's three times Grandfather worked and designed ships at Chatham Dockyard which is where I live, my claim to fame at last.

Its raining now so now chance of snow today at least.

Monday 13th I have to put the car back into the main dealers as the drivers window runner is sticking not a big job I hope, but its such a joy to drive, 18 plate so fairly newish, only done 32k, go on make me an offer, would have to be good one mind you.

Once upon a time I was so proud of this country but in recent years it has really let me down in so many ways,  the population is growing so fast but letting in too many from abroad, our great NHS is broken, the whole system is on its knees, yes we have had a horrible time what with Covid and the cost of living, but its more than that, nobody cares anymore, nobody respects anyone anymore, what has happened to this Great Britain of ours, we have been under attack for many years, religious fanatics have ruid our way of life, our children are growing up in a world where people do not know who or what they, its getting so ridiculous now, I just wish it would stop.  

 

Another sunday lunch

 Another Sunday, and the suns out and blue skies here in medway and the daily grind, whats the weather like where you are?

Love sundays and its getting lighter now in the afternoon, on a day like this it stays lighter until almost 5pm, lovely spring is almost here.  

I am selling digital downloads or trying too, its not as easy as it seems at first, have created an etsy shop, but recently I have decided to do a complete revamp, a kind of shuffle of images, and uploading some new ideas, as the others I had didnt sell,  creating planners at the moment, hard work and takes time but hopefully worth it.

Just had roast beef steaks and veg, the ruhbarb crumble and custerd we know how to live here at the daily grind, what did you have today?

Well the sun is still shining so will go for a walk, see you all soon 

Changes

 Oh is it saturday, another day what have you all been up too, here at the daily grind its been slow and relaxing, my kind of day.  Got my car back after the repair.

Sadly one of our neighbours passed away, he was 88, a lovely man who when ever we saw him enjoyed a little chat, in the first few days after we had moved into the road he would tell us the history of the area, one that we did enjoy, no he was not like uncle albert from only fools, he was kind and friendly, the road will not be the same without him may you rest in peace Bill. The road has changed but you get used to seeing and living with the new ones, but to see someone else in Bill and Maggies house is really going to take some getting used too. 

We have lost both our parents Joanne and I, so we know how much losing a mum and dad hurts, and you never really get over it you just learn to live on. 

We are thinking of moving into our forever home which wouldbe the last time, so to get the right one in the right area is going to take some time.

Park struggles

 hello been a while since I posted, been busy looking after my partner Joanne, she has onset parkinsons, shes fine, but finds life a little hard sometimes, gets stiff and moves slowly, recently we had some handrails installed on the stairs but the local council department, we own the house but through the NHS we were able to get them installed, its made a difference for her to get up and down them.

Learning more about parkinsons every day, waiting for hospital appointments is frustrating as many have found, on a waiting list to see a gastro person as she has this cough vertually every time she eats.

Its so hard to see someone you care for going through this every day, as said shes fine, not bad as yet but its the future that does not sound great for her. She used to be able to walk very fast, I sometimes had a job to keep up with her, getting in and out of chairs and bed is a mini task.

Shes on medication as you can imagine, shaky tablets as we call them, pain killers as and when needed. 

Sadly there is no known cure for parkinsons, as Joanne has said it is was it is, but I cant help feeling for her everytime she struggles.

Lets hope they find a cure soon.